So often one hears...
"My child skipped a baby development stage. She definitely develops
fast! She's definitely gifted and will surely do well in years to come."
Every parent likes to believe their child is gifted and look for any
sign to confirm their hopes.
There is always excitement in a fast developing baby.
But is this observation true? Is it a clear cut sign of above average
talent?
What you're hearing is probably based on the worst baby development myth
parents believe.
The truth is rather...
Skipping one or more of the baby development stages... or frequently
also known as milestones, is definitely NOT a clear-cut sign of superior
development.
The aim is surely not to speed up your baby's development. It is definitely
best for your baby if she masters all the milestones and development
skills.
Realize that normal baby development is universal and follows the same
natural pattern throughout the world.
Every baby follows this same development pattern. And milestones apply
to all healthy babies.
That means a baby developing "normally" should master every development
milestone within a very specific age range, regardless of where in the
world she lives.
And despite what parents like to believe, their baby does not have an
unique set of development rules which may explain a faster or unique
development pattern.
Few parents realize that each of the development milestones teaches
infants particular skills necessary for further progress.
Babies must therefore master all the learning skills for a particular
age for best development.
There is very little if anything to be gained by skipping or
neglecting any of the vital development experiences.
Many child learning problems happen because parents have specifically
neglected certain learning experiences in the hope of fast tracking
their child's development.
There's one more very important thing about mastering the baby
development stages.
Reaching a milestone isn't just about going through the motions… doing
the right things.
Your baby also needs to do it right.
There is a certain quality part necessary to properly master any
milestone.
The full learning experience is only gained by properly mastering the
skills.
Parents may often say their baby is sitting. But that does not
necessarily mean the baby is sitting correctly.
Their baby may in fact be sitting… but only if holding onto another
object or if somehow being supported.
The reality is rather that the baby is not able to free her hands to
play with a toy or even move her hands from side to side to discover the
surroundings.
All the important development skills have thus not yet been properly
mastered. More stimulation and encouragement is still needed.
What is then the best way parents can overcome the worst baby
development stage myth?
Babies gain most when they not only master all skills associated with
the different development milestones, but also do it right.
The best any parent can do for their baby is ensuring she does all the
things babies do, do them right... and have fun doing so.
The worst baby development stage myth... revealed! -->
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